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| * **Being the “good parent”**. This is one of the parts of me that came into focus during my stay at the Life Itself Bergerac hub in November. I still feel the pull, when situations arise. My development goal is not to grasp at some kind of need to be the helper figure, but to wait until either the need is clearly apparent, or I am asked. Even then, to respond to the request with wisdom: not all requests should be agreed to. | * **Being the “good parent”**. This is one of the parts of me that came into focus during my stay at the Life Itself Bergerac hub in November. I still feel the pull, when situations arise. My development goal is not to grasp at some kind of need to be the helper figure, but to wait until either the need is clearly apparent, or I am asked. Even then, to respond to the request with wisdom: not all requests should be agreed to. | ||
| - | * **Asking for help** with just those things where I genuinely need help. There seems to be in me (as in others?) a part that is afraid of coming across as needy. Maybe this is protecting an old part of young age where a genuine need was not met? The imperative would be, I must manage this by myself! This is good, perhaps, for developing DIY skills :-D One of the things I genuinely need help with is self-motivation and the related self-confidence. If self-confidence is lacking, it makes sense that self-motivation will suffer. Or, following [[t:IFS]], maybe I should write that as “Self-confidence”. | + | * **Asking for help** with just those things where I genuinely need help. There seems to be in me (as in others?) a part that is afraid of coming across as needy. Maybe this is protecting an old part of young age where a genuine need was not met? The imperative would be, I must manage this by myself! This is good, perhaps, for developing DIY skills :-D One of the things I genuinely need help with is self-motivation and the related self-confidence. If self-confidence is lacking, it makes sense that self-motivation will suffer. Or, following [[t:IFS]], maybe I should write that as “**Self**-confidence”. |
| * Following the trailheads brought up in conversation here, particularly with Roberto. | * Following the trailheads brought up in conversation here, particularly with Roberto. | ||
| * **Permaculture as applied to human community** — this extends easily and naturally to the living system at Liminal Village itself. Can we establish some axioms as a fertile container? | * **Permaculture as applied to human community** — this extends easily and naturally to the living system at Liminal Village itself. Can we establish some axioms as a fertile container? | ||
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